It's just sad

that people live for change, yet when things change, they're upset. People change, some for the best, others for the worse. I just wish you'd realize that some people are in your past for a reason. They were a stepping stone to get where you are today. You had to have them in your life to be who you are, and I know it hurts having to leave them in the past but remember this; forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

I've been there. When you love somebody so much and you think that feeling is going to last forever and then something happens, you stop talking, and the next thing you realize is that they're heading down the road to nowhere. The first thing you want to do is help them right? Let’s think, if they wanted help they'd come to you. You've brought it to their attention now step back and see if they value your opinion and advice. If they don't then you know they're honestly not worth your time and that they don't belong in your life. It will hurt to move on, but if they do not feel the same about you then why linger and put yourself through so much hurt? Look around you, people care for you and love you. People come and go in your life, they go for a reason, but while they were around remember how you felt and hold into that feeling yet at the same time don't try to relive it. We only live once, do not try to re live moments; moments only last for so long for a reason. Sometimes it isn’t the words that were said, or the actions that took place, but the feelings you felt. Do not close your heart young one, it is too early in your life to believe you've lived through it all. You've grown up too quickly, slow down, and enjoy being a teenager. Live, love and make mistakes, then move on and start again.

Girlfriends and boyfriends should be your best friends, not someone you think is hot and can get a lot out of. They should be someone you share your dreams with, have common interests, and feel for on a deeper level, not just a hormonal level. Yes of course there should be some sort of physical attraction but do not base your relationships on that.

Sometimes you don’t realize it but your actions affect others greatly. A little thing for you might be something big for another. The other person could be replaying your action over and over again in his or her mind trying to figure out what you meant by it. Just something to keep in mind.